The Euros have begun! For most households this is something to look forward to and enjoy as a family but for some it sparks anxiety and panic because research shows that incidences of domestic violence both physical and mental increase during big football tournaments. According to research carried out by Health Assured, domestic abuse cases rise by 26% when England play, 28% if they lose, and regardless of the outcome 11% the next day.
Alcohol, in some cases drug misuse and heightened emotions regarding the matches are all factors that can escalate an abuser’s existing behaviours. Many incidents that are reported during football season are indicators of ongoing abuse. The tension of the matches combined with the alcohol and other factors can often cause someone who is already an abuser to become more violent and unpredictable. Being passionate about a sport is not an excuse for violent and abusive behaviour. When alcohol is in the mix, domestic abuse can become more severe, even fatal in some cases. The influence of alcohol and drugs affects how you think and react to situations and make you care less about the consequences of your actions.
The World Health Organization has estimated that around 55% of domestic abusers were under the influence of alcohol before an assault. Many police forces across the UK are currently warning abusers that their behaviour will not be tolerated and constabularies across England are offering support and help to victims and encouraging them to speak out.
The forms of Domestic Abuse
Domestic abuse comes in many forms and disguises. The domestic Abuse Intervention Project in Duluth MN has created the chart below to identify abusive behaviours ranging from physical violence to more subtle methods of abuse such as coercive controlling behaviour, isolation techniques and gas lighting. Domestic abuse doesn’t have to be violent for it to be abusive behaviour and many victims do not come forward or speak out because they have been so affected and undermined by their partner’s behaviour they can’t identify abuse themselves or they feel embarrassed or ashamed about sharing their experience and asking for help. Please don’t suffer alone. Reach out and start your journey to a safer and happier life for you and your children.
What should I do if I am a victim of abuse?
- If you or your children are in imminent danger you must dial 999 or 101 and ask the police for help.
- Police stations have DVU’s (Domestic violence units) with officers who are specially trained to support you and signpost you to the right professional services.
- You may need emotional or therapeutic support. Get in contact with your GP, health visitor or midwife.
- For more information please visit the NHS website. For Women on 0808 2000 247, Freephone National Domestic Abuse Helpline. For Men on 0808 8010 327, Men’s Advise Line
- Women’s Aid also offer an online chat and other ways of contact
- You may also need to apply for an injunction or occupation order to protect you and your children which is where Townsend Family Law can help you.
- If you are on a low income or in receipt of state benefits you may be eligible for legal aid which is not something that we at Townsend Family Law can offer but there are a law firms local to you who have contracts with the legal aid board.
